Book Club Questions



The Modern Trophy Wife Book Club Questions


  1. What was the overall theme of the book?
  2. What did you think of there being two authors?  Did you identify with a particular author?
  3. Was there any section that struck you personally?
  4. Was there anything that you learned from the book?
  5. How would you define self-care?
  6. How do you refill your own tank?
  7. Do you have a wind down routine?  If so, what is it?
  8. How can you incorporate exercise into your daily schedule?
  9. What are some of your health goals?  How will you work towards them?
  10. What are some of your life goals?  How will you work towards them?
  11. Do you struggle with confidence?  If so, are there ways you can build your confidence?
  12. What are some moments where you need to be more present?
  13. What roles do you struggle to balance in your life?
  14. What tips can you put in place to balance the roles of wife and mother?
  15. Are you your husband’s biggest fan?  If so, how do you show him?
  16. Have you developed an individual plan?  If not, what is holding you back from looking forward?
  17. Have you identified what fulfills you?  If so, what is it?
  18. What does success look like for you?
  19. Is social media a distraction for you?  How can you get a handle on how much time you spend on social media?   
  20. Who is a part of your “dream team” or support system?  Do you utilize them as often as you could?
  21. Have you identified a mentor for yourself?  If not, what is preventing you from getting a mentor?
  22. Do you consider yourself a mentor?  If not, how can you become a mentor?
  23. Who would you induct into “The Modern Trophy Wife Hall of Fame?”
  24. What new things have you wanted to try?  What is stopping you from trying them?
  25. Are you making vertical career moves?  If not, how can you better position yourself to progress?
  26. How can you maintain healthy boundaries when needed?
  27. How do you nurture your relationship?
  28. How can you manage gender role conflicts in your home if they exist?
  29. How can you ensure that you and your spouse are on the same page regarding sex?
  30. What qualities of a modern trophy wife do you exhibit?